Negotiation Checklist: Consent, Boundaries, and BDSM Planning
A negotiation checklist is a structured tool for discussing BDSM or sexual activities, limits, safewords, risks, privacy, health concerns, and aftercare before participation.
A negotiation checklist is a structured tool for discussing BDSM or sexual activities, limits, safewords, risks, privacy, health concerns, and aftercare before participation.
A hard limit is a firm BDSM or sexual boundary identifying an activity, behavior, or situation that a person does not consent to and does not want negotiated or crossed.
A soft limit is a BDSM or sexual boundary that someone may consider exploring under specific conditions but that still requires clear, specific, and voluntary consent.
Personal Responsibility, Informed, Consensual Kink (PRICK) is a BDSM consent framework emphasizing informed choices, personal responsibility, communication, and voluntary participation.
The traffic light system uses green, yellow, and red as simple signals for continuing, slowing down or checking in, and stopping during intimate or BDSM activities.
Risk-aware consent means agreeing to an activity with a reasonable understanding of its important risks, limits, possible consequences, and available safety measures.
Child marriage is a marriage involving at least one person below the recognized minimum age, raising concerns about consent, education, health, autonomy, and gender inequality.
Forced marriage occurs when one or both people are pressured, threatened, or coerced into marriage without free and full consent.
Virginity testing is an unreliable practice that attempts to determine sexual history through genital examination, despite no physical test being able to prove virginity.
Corrective rape is sexual violence committed with the claimed purpose of changing, punishing, or suppressing someone’s sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression.