Traffic Light System: Green, Yellow, and Red in Consent
The traffic light system uses green, yellow, and red as simple signals for continuing, slowing down or checking in, and stopping during intimate or BDSM activities.
The traffic light system uses green, yellow, and red as simple signals for continuing, slowing down or checking in, and stopping during intimate or BDSM activities.
Body autonomy is the right to make meaningful decisions about one’s own body, including touch, healthcare, sexuality, reproduction, privacy, and physical boundaries.
Embodied consent combines bodily awareness with clear, voluntary communication, helping people notice comfort, discomfort, desire, uncertainty, and changing boundaries.
Sensory sensitivity in intimacy describes how touch, sound, light, smell, texture, and other sensory input can affect comfort, arousal, boundaries, and sexual experiences.
Consent literacy is the ability to understand, communicate, recognize, and apply consent, boundaries, capacity, and voluntary agreement in sexual and intimate situations.
A sexual boundary violation occurs when someone crosses, pressures, or ignores another person’s limits involving sexual activity, touch, privacy, or communication.
Intimacy negotiation is the process of discussing and agreeing on emotional, physical, sexual, relational, and privacy needs within an intimate relationship.
Boundary testing involves discovering how firm another person’s physical, emotional, sexual, digital, or professional limits are.
Sexual refusal is the communication that a person does not want to begin, continue, or participate in a particular sexual activity.
Boundary setting is the process of identifying, communicating, and maintaining personal limits in relationships, intimacy, privacy, and everyday life.